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Im not transphobic whatsoever, but if it were my partner telling me they were trans after we already started dating, that would disintegrate any trust i had for that person. I would break up with them on the spot.
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Probably my hottest take is that trans people have zero obligation to their partner to reveal that they’re trans until they are 100% ready no matter how late into the relationship that may be.
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Anonymous 3w

Genuine question, does it really make that much of a difference to you? I mean it’s not like they’re being deceptive by saying they’re the gender they identify as.

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 3w

Hiding the fact you are transgender from your partner is absolutely deceptive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I guess i just don’t get what the big deal is lol, or why it seems like it’s setting people off so much. If its just the fact that you felt like they were keeping something from you, fine, but it’s not such an egregious offense imo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m not trying to argue everyone has their preferences but I’m just trying to understand your perspective ig lol

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 3w

Me personally, if they had bottom surgery it wouldn’t be the fact that they’re trans, as much as it is that we were dating and they withhold information that I feel should be shared. Not because they are trans but because it is a big piece in finding their identity and who they are. If i tell them everything about me, I would want the same trust from them. It’s a sensitive topic and hardship they went through and as a partner I’d want to know abt it so that I can be aware and support them :(

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