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Probably my hottest take is that trans people have zero obligation to their partner to reveal that they’re trans until they are 100% ready no matter how late into the relationship that may be.
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Transgender people who do any intimate activities with anyone without disclosing they are trans should go to jail for rape, even kissing
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Anonymous 3w

in theory i agree, but in our (sometimes violently so) heteronormative trans-hostile child-centric society, this is deceptive in a relationship and others have stated, set trans people up for dangerous situations

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Anonymous 3w

this seems like it’s intentionally advocating to create harmful situations towards trans people

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Anonymous 3w

I mean that’s a pretty big deal. If you’re dating somebody or about to sleep with somebody you gotta give them a heads up. But at the same time, people shouldn’t lose their shit over it when they find out. Really this is just a symptom of the larger issue which is rampant homophobia and insecurity over one’s own sexuality.

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Anonymous 3w

True unless you’re hooking up w your partner without them knowing that you’re transgender bc that’s pretty deceitful

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Anonymous 3w

Yeahhhhh…. Let’s see how well this goofy shit would play out 🤡

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Anonymous 3w

People shittin on you but you’re right. When coming out can get you killed, prioritizing your safety is paramount

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Anonymous 3w

Sounds like you’re encouraging rape

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I mean it could have that effect but if trans people want to avoid violence then they can tell their partner. All I’m saying is they shouldn’t HAVE TO. Obviously they can if they want

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yeah that’s my only concern, especially in the modern political climate. If someone considers you being trans a dealbreaker when you tell them right away, there’s a non zero chance it’ll turn violent if it’s withheld. Better to get it over with I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> shrimp_fried_rice 3w

I’m pretty sure several countries even consider the “trans panic defense” a valid thing, thus making violence against a trans partner when they reveal they are trans easier to get away with.

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