
Oh I agree, I’m just saying it’s one of those patriarchy hurts men too issues and not an inherent “I hate women and want them to suffer” standard. Just a it’s acceptable for women to work in an office setting in blouses/short sleeves/dresses/skirts/etc, but not for men without getting a dress code violation write up. Obviously the solution is expanding men’s fashion (and thus office wear/dress code acceptability) but fashion is FOR WOMEN men must be UTILITARIAN ONLY
Tbh I fully agree, and it’s also specifically a major reason as to why transphobia is so prevalent in our patriarchal society. I don’t know if I necessarily agree with the “fashion is for women and men must be utilitarian only” part, but I do see what you mean by it. The only reason I contest is because a lot of that actually stems out of the societal objectification of women, and the sexualization of them; think the “beauty standard”
But I do agree that patriarchy negatively impacts men (although not as much as it negatively impacts others); especially through the societal expectation of “what a man is” or “how a man behaves”; that toxic masculinity that is so prevalent in our society, that is commonly ingrained into children during their upbringing