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“This would destroy my trust in them” They’re trying not to get killed. Please understand. Trans people are trying not to get killed.
Probably my hottest take is that trans people have zero obligation to their partner to reveal that they’re trans until they are 100% ready no matter how late into the relationship that may be.
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Anonymous 3w

If you reveal you are transgender before yaou start dating, it is significantly less likely that you will be killed. Hope this helps:-)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

If you reveal it before you know someone, you don’t know if they are the type of person who would react violently to that reveal. There are plenty of cases where a trans person got murdered by a person they barely knew.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

The smug “Hope this helps” really does it for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Why do you type your emoticons like an old person? It’s “ :) “ now

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