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Guy I’ve been talking (not dating, talking to) has already been talking abt “Oh, if we have a house, we can have XYZ” and how many kids he wants. Do I run?
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Anonymous 4w

that's a bit wild. it'd be fine if he were askin these questions or saying that's what he'd want, but it's odd he's using it in the context of "we", like he's already planning all this with you, meanwhile, yall aren't even dating

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Anonymous 4w

That’s a very strange

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Anonymous replying to -> prettywoman 4w

Like that’s how it started out, like it was js “Where can you picture yourself in 10 years”, “Do you plan on staying in the state after those ten years”, and “What sort of home do you see yourself in/what sort of environment would be ideal for you” and then it started turning into scenarios involving “We” (ex; “If things work out with us, we can have XYZ in the house”, “if things work out with us, a kid is a must for me”)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

yeah, i just think that's kinda odd. my fiancé for the longest time didn't use the term, "our kids", and rather said "my kids", when discussing our future. i dunno, that's just kinda weird to me.

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