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Guy I’ve been talking (not dating, talking to) has already been talking abt “Oh, if we have a house, we can have XYZ” and how many kids he wants. Do I run?

Anonymous 4w

I mean, do his future goals align with yours? If you’re anti having kids then yeah run cuz that man isn’t changing

Anonymous 4w

You guys are not compatible

Anonymous

#1 4w

Some extra context: -I only like the idea of a long term relationship but don’t know if I can see myself in one right now (realized that with this talking stage which is terrible) -I am like 75% anti kids at this point and firmly believe I’d be a better uncle (I am an uncle, but I couldn’t see myself having any kids, at least, not now) -We met on a dating app, haven’t met in person yet -He’s 21 and I’m 19 -We’ve only been talking for 6 weeks

Anonymous

OP 4w

Figure out what you want or if you’re open to the chance that with the right person maybe you’d be more open and let the person you’re talking to know those expectations. If you get to dating and it’s 4 years from now and a family is brought up and you’re out than everyone is upset