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If a same-gender couple goes on a first date (assuming similar incomes, but one person is more traditionally masculine/feminine presenting than the other person) who should pay?

#poll

They should split or alternate

The more masc person

The more fem person

Whoever asked out the other first

No idea

255 votes

OnlyPolls 1d

If a straight man and woman (with similar incomes/access to finances) go on a first date, should the man pay?

#poll

They should split or alternate (f)

They should split or alternate (m)

He should pay (f)

He should pay (m)

The woman should always pay

344 votes

Anonymous 1d

The restaurant

Anonymous 1d

Personally I think it should always be who asked the other out, or else split if they agree on that

Anonymous 1d

Could you imagine debating with them who’s more masc and therefore has to pay? Prolly not what you meant but I find that so funny

Anonymous 1d

they should arm wrestle and whoever wins pays /j

Anonymous 1d

I think everyone regardless of gender or orientation should be splitting the check and like. Paying for what they ordered

Anonymous 1d

Whatever they agree on, it’s none of my business even if they’re straight instead

Anonymous

#2 1d

True true happy pride 🏳️‍🌈

Anonymous

#3 1d

And if one person wants to pay for the other as like a cute gesture than sure but it’s not an expectation of either party and either party is able to make that gesture regardless of whether they’re masculine or feminine

Anonymous

#5 1d

I can imagine that exact conversation actually I think I’ve experienced smth similar

Anonymous

#5 1d

fr like “well u have shorter hair” “well im wearing more makeup” 😭 sounds like a great way to not get a second date