Respectfully it sounds like yall are moving very fast. I personally would not consider 2 months to be ”a while” when it comes to wanting a baby. As such if I were in your shoes I personally would not propose because that’s moving way too fast. However, if you’re in a circumstance which requires you to propose at the very least you should sign a prenup. If she cannot respect your wishes and concerns then I would argue that is evidence she is not marriage material

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You have royally fucked up, friend

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AFTER 2 MONTHS??????????

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Bro did she poke holes or were you equally testing your chances?

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Oh my god dude this is wayyyyyyy too fast. Honestly I’d be trying to get an abortion but you don’t have control over that and it sounds like it’s late. You NEED a prenup. If she’s immature enough to want to get pregnant after 3 MONTHS she cannot be trusted to be mature in a divorce. Absolutely do NOT get married without a prenup

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Don’t marry her if it’s only for the baby. If you don’t actually want to spend your life with her, you will just be complicating things in the long run. If proposing is something you actually want, and not because there is a baby involved, then you propose with a prenup.

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Don’t propose unless you truly see yourself with her for the long run. If you’re going to propose though don’t do it without a prenup, I wouldn’t budge on that.

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Get a paternity test before doing anything, just in case

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Transfer all money, bank accounts to parents, and assets titles such as home and car to your parents before marriage. Then if divorce happens, none of those assets belong to you, so they will get nothing

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it’s super annoying when men say “WE’RE pregnant.” she’s pregnant. you just made her pregnant.

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