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I’ve been seeing my gf for a little over 2 months now and she told me she wants to have kids and be married within a year What do you think?

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Green flag

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Red flag

352 votes

Anonymous 2w

She’s tryna trap you.

Anonymous 2w

She knows what she wants in life and there’s nothing wrong with that. If you’re not wanting to do that, break up with her and let her find someone else. There’s gonna be resentment from both sides eventually and if you’re not in the same page, you’re probably just gonna break up anyways

Anonymous 2w

So I was in a relationship similar to this. She couldn’t get pregnant so baby trapping wasn’t something that could happen (though she joked that if she could she would). I got out of that relationship of three years a month and a half ago and am sort of now looking back on it.

Anonymous 2w

Its her life her choices, she told you what she wants and you can either leave or stay

Anonymous

#2 2w

I don’t think it’s a sign she’s a bad person, but I think it’s a sign of over-attachment and probably some level of immaturity when it comes to relationship topics. My ex was very emotionally dependent and connects to people very quickly (she’s already dating someone else). That’s not a moral failing but it meant that it was more difficult to broach heavy topics with her because she was more prone to emotional hurt.

Anonymous

#2 2w

Wait sorry I misread she said she wants kids and marriage within THIS YEAR???? Okay hell no absolutely not I thought you were saying she brought up hypothetical future kids. Yeah no big red flag that’s way too quick she obviously has like some serious emotional immaturity or is way too quick to have heavy attachment

Anonymous

#2 2w

Like getting married within a year of dating is already a terrible idea but bringing up that and KIDS after two months is fucking crazy and I would not trust her not to do something drastic like baby trapping

Anonymous

#2 2w

At the very least you need to have a very serious conversation about proper expectations and responsible timelines but this would be a big red flag for me

Anonymous

#3 2w

I like her a lot! I plan to stay but it’s my first relationship so I don’t know what normal expectations would be but my family is saying she’s a red flag so I thought I’d get more opinions.

Anonymous

OP 2w

I think my family is just worried because I make a lot of money but she likes me for more than just my money

Anonymous

OP 2w

It really depends on how old you are then imo. If you really want to be with her then beige but I’d say red if you’re under 23 or so.

Anonymous

#1 1w

You called it lmao he just posted again that he’s baby trapped and considering proposing 💀💀