i’m a gay man myself by the way and was the one saying that they shouldn’t say it. don’t ask me questions about them being “straight aroace” i have no clue. that’s what they called themselves word for word.
if an ftm t4t straight aroace guy was called the f slur by his abusers can he reclaim it even if he’s straight? i’m not the person in question but it’s an argument i’m having with someone.