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LGBTQIA+ 14w
Trueee but we also need to acknowledge how DL men in relationships cause serious harm to their (usually) wives or girlfriends, physically or mentally. Stay single!
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Stop it, I don’t like the whole DL thing, but I also understand it’s birthed from a real fear of alienation from their communities, not everyone has the privilege to come out nor should they be bashed for that.
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Anonymous 14w

Cheating on a partner is not inherent to being dl :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

no but you are betraying someone and misleading them if you're in a straight relationship knowing you're gay

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

This is also not inherent to being dl what is your point 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

That’s what I don’t get—like I think meaning of “DL” changed???

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

oh I was talking about the context of the post not dl in general I thought you were saying that it was okay for dl men to be in straight relationships if they were cheating, sorry I misunderstood you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14w

weren't*

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

That’s not the point.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

DL in most contexts refers to a man in a relationship with a woman lol, yes not all but …

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