
Your mom reminds me of mine. She told me nobody would ever love me just bc she drove me late to work one day… I was 15…. Guess she could not handle the guilt of her own actions and then told me nobody will love me??? These kinda moms just wanna feel an all encompassing control over her kids. Leaving, going no contact is the only way to regain your power. I did it too
welcome to the club 🫶 haven’t talked in over a year. it was ugly when i came out as nonbinary in 2021. I brought up to her that that still hurts and it feels like she doesn’t accept me fully. “Well I didn’t KNOW you still identified that way. But that being said, I don’t consider that an actual thing. That has nothing to do with my faith, but science.” mind you i was literally in a genetics class at that time LMAO
Heavy agree, throughout all these years she always says I’ll only/always be the little girl she met and adopted (when I was like 7 bruh) and that I’d never be able to change from that one state of being. Like sorry I’m not 7 anymore and I’ve grown into my own person with beliefs and values that differ from her expectations lol
Omg very similar experience to mine lol, I came out in 2020 and she said it went against nature and her religion and stuff and this year I begged to know if she actually loved those parts of me and she said no 🙃 she also told me it’s just mental illness and she’s very distrustful of science and medicine in general 😒 glad to know im not alone in this exact experience lol