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misgendering is referring to someone using incorrect pronouns and isn’t always malicious. sure u can they/them for strangers, but if those aren’t their pronouns, it’s still misgendering. there’s no way to avoid it, so u just have to do better when u know.
idk why people cant seem to understand that if they know someone goes by she/her or he/him, calling them they/them is still misgendering
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Anonymous 2w

getting they/themmed simply for being clocky because people are afraid to guess 😔 🫠

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Anonymous 2w

people really want there to be some rule they can consistently apply to avoid misgendering people, because it feels bad to be corrected, but there isn’t one. so just, if some corrects you, please don’t make a whole production about it. just correct yourself and move on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

This is why I have two she/her pins on my backpack lmao so it’s literally just like a name tag whenever I wear it

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