Anonymous #4 2w

Wouldn’t be surprised. Maybe one day they’ll learn that bitching about being held accountable for misgendering isn’t an attack and that catching up on 15+ year old Tumblr discourse is not being involved in the Queer community. 😂

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Anonymous #2 2w

or hell, maybe to listen to 3 seperate people saying “you’re wrong”

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there isn’t any nuance to “don’t refer to someone who’s pronouns you know with different pronouns—that’s misgendering.”

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Damn, I almost held a party. You were so close. You could have just deleted it, taken the lesson, and been better moving forward. Instead, you double down on being grossly incorrect. That’s just sad.

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i don’t know whats so nuanced about “use someones pronouns for them if you know them”

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Not at all what any of us are saying. Why are you so hellbent on trying to excuse misgendering? Seek help.

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WE DONT DISAGREE THATS AN ENTIRELY SEPARATE THINGS THAN CALLING A PERSON YOU KNOW BY THEIR PRONOUNS

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how old are you? honestly.

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you are referring to a person who uses specific pronouns, not a gender.

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like you keep arguing you’re way around the entire point of this

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Awe, such a paltry attempt to justify misgendering. Cute. Say some more bullshit!

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if someone uses they/them pronouns for me it’s misgendering me. i use she/her. using anything else for me is both wrong and against my wishes. now with that being said you still going to they/them me?

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BECAUSE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT GENDERED PEOPLE

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jfc now you’re just being a purposeful dense pain in the ass

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first-person vs third-person pronouns are really beating your ass for someone who claimed to be an english major

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we are talking about gendered people who use specific pronouns

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Anonymous #3 2w

Must have meant they’re retaking remedial English in HS.

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Like you’re being by wanting to misgender others?

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If you use they/them for me you are misgendering me. what about that do you disagree with?

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You really need to put the phone down and talk to Queer people in person because this bullshit would be stamped out so quickly and you’d actually learn this. 😂

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this would remain true even if i hadn’t said that because i said my pronouns are she/her. so you would use they/them to refer to someone who uses she/her

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Not gendering them correctly is, in fact, misgendering them. Transphobia is bullshit. Quit spouting bullshit.

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Anonymous #2 2w

this has to be a troll because theres no was someone is genuinely this dumb

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Anonymous #4 2w

Apparently the Venn diagram for this one is a perfect circle. 🤣

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You really don’t interact with Queer people because you wouldn’t be spouting this bullshit if you did. You can’t even try to pretend otherwise. 😂

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I’m not the transphobe, so, no.

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why do you think refusing to acknowledge the identity they want you to is any better?

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If you weren’t transphobic, you wouldn’t be clinging to transphobic bullshit. 🥱

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if someone tells you the pronouns they go by exclusively and you use something else, that is refusing to acknowledge the identity they have made clear to you

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don’t use pronouns for people unless they say they use those pronouns. whats so hard to do about that?

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what youre doing is implying people shouldnt be allowed to have boundaries when their identities are ignored. if someone wanted to be called by they/them, theyd include it in their pronouns

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Tod was in an accident.

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ok. person a uses the pronouns that person a told me that person a uses

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Tod’s back might have been hurt. you’re not going to make whatever point you’re trying to, because none of us are going to endorse transphobia. beyond that, again demonstrating that you don’t spend enough time in trans spaces, some people opt for no pronouns/name only. it is possible, esp in text based communication. this isn’t hard.

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lol

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Anonymous #3 2w

Can you believe him? It’s insanity. 😂

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Well, pronouns are nebulous and don’t really have gender and any can be used because it’s not representative of your gender. It’s outside of gender here.

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So you DO understand misgendering then? Or is it only selective to you?

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Great, you’ve learned the first lesson of what we’ve been telling you! No, reread every comment and learn the rest.

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I’m just emulating you, hun. Can’t have it both ways.

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Anonymous #6 2w

Transphobic bum trying to justify degendering/misgendering.

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Anonymous #9 2w

Still true in face to face interactions, hun.

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Anonymous #2 2w

“They” is used universally and is completely gender-less. Who tf cares

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Anonymous #9 2w

people who dont use they/them pronouns. its misgendering to use them for people who dont use those pronouns

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Anonymous #9 2w

Anyone with decency cares. Makes sense why you don’t.

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