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LGBTQIA+ 1d
the fact that I got downvoted for saying ace people still have sex… yikes!
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Told someone I may be asexual got ghosted love tinder!
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Anonymous 1d

Being a sex positive ace is so fucking tiring because everyone’s got a reason to hate on me for my identity

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Anonymous 1d

genuine question, how can you be ace(specifically asexual) if you have/and or enjoy sex? doesn’t that label mean specifically that you don’t enjoy or have sex?

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Anonymous 1d

There’s no downvotes?

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Anonymous 1h

I have been raped by an asexual person. Some asexual ppl still have sex and they can still be rapist(I have seen ppl claim that asexual ppl are the only sexuality incapable of rape)

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Anonymous 1d

i meant SPECIFICALLY on this app btw i'm not trying to get cancelled

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i don't rly see hate prob just misunderstanding tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

there are, brodie

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Bye they’re coming for you now rly?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

don’t know why this is downvoted for being true. use your eyes or something idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Asexual means you don’t experience sexual attraction to any gender. It doesn’t say anything about libido or attitude towards sex. Sex still physiologically feels the same way. ppl have free will, they can do what they want. Do you enjoy sex? Is there a gender you’re not attracted to? Imagine you felt that way about everybody. Is the experience of sex something you like enough you’d do it anyway? Whatever ur answer is, if u reflect on that you may start to understand the variety of ace experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

the same way you don’t have to crave a specific food in order to eat it. aces don’t experience sexual attraction but may partake in sex for other valid reasons

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

ohhhh okay, so like fulfilling a physical desire without the craving/want to initiate it for the sake of attraction? that makes sense, thank you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

okay thank you for explaining! i’m sorry if my comment read as disrespectful, i just didn’t know and hadn’t heard someone explain it in a way that made sense before

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