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Told someone I may be asexual got ghosted love tinder!
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Anonymous 17h

Tinder is overwhelmingly horny people. You might have better luck on Hinge or one of the other apps

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Anonymous 17h

How are you gonna be asexual but on Tinder?

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Anonymous 17h

Atp I’m just keeping that information private for life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

asexual ≠ aromantic

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

agreed, pretty sure my friend met her bf on hinge and she’s ace

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

Their point was probably that Tinder is generally a horny hookup app

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

asexual people can still have sex lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

I doubt the average person on tinder (the horny hookup app) is an expert on the ace spectrum 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11h

that doesn’t change my statement, nor does it have anything to do with why OP would be on Tinder, but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7h

If you’re asexual and you tell the average person on the horny hookup app that you’re asexual, they’re probably not gonna know much about it and they’re likely gonna assume you’re not interested in sex. Why be on an app with people like that where sex is like the main thing, rather than a different app where people are more likely to understand/care about more than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7h

Queer dating apps have a much lower user count and it’s even worse in smaller towns, so some of us don’t really have a choice Why ghost people instead of just sending a quick message lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

Not justifying the ghosting part, just explaining the comment asking why they’re using tinder of all things

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