
No one said it wasn’t okay, just that being unaccepting of people within the community for being a part of a religion as well isn’t okay. You don’t have to like religion but you do have to be respectful of other people’s beliefs unless you know they are actively doing something harmful (not just that others in the religion are harmful but that they themselves hold a specific toxic belief)
i feel like ex-christians just take out their trauma on religion in general rather than taking the time to understand that religion is literally how so many communities are built. just because you have religious trauma does mean religion (even christianity) is to blame. you can still respect people’s belief in god even if you lack one yourself.
i didn’t say it’s okay to be hateful towards religious people. in fact, i said the opposite. i just mean that religious queer people should also understand the social taboos and ramifications of being queer and choosing to not be religious. you can respect someone’s beliefs and also acknowledge how the social constructs of those beliefs can be harmful.
So you are actively being hateful towards religion 💀 making blanket statements and assuming all must be inherently hateful or harmful IS being hateful towards religious people. There are ways to be religious without being homophobic or harmful in other ways. THATS why you’re getting downvoted, not because of “lack of receptiveness”
And exactly 🙄 you’re just upset that other people are calling you out on your own bigotry. Being queer doesn’t suddenly make other kinds of discrimination okay. This community isn’t okay with you making this place unsafe and unwelcoming to other queer people with different beliefs than you.
communities built on christianity are built from rape, colonialism, and genocide. i just don’t like the idea of agreeing with an ideology that rejects, ostracizes, and exploits other queer people. just cause you haven’t been traumatized by queerness and religion doesn’t mean it’s okay to ignore those that have been victims of discrimination at the hands of religion. it’s a destructive tool that has built up some while tearing down queer, Black, and brown communities.
dude i hate to break it to you but but christianity has also uplifted and built those same communities. why some of those communities had to adopt christianity is bad but you gotta recognize that a lot of black and brown communities were and are built around the church. i’m not even christian and i can recognize that. any organized group can cause harm but that doesn’t mean they are inherently bad.
religion is a way to bring people together whether you believe in god or not. i’m jewish and there have been statistics that show a majority of jews don’t even believe in god but they engage in the religion regardless because it is a matter of community and culture. religion is about community and finding people you want to share that with.
i’m not assimilating into a culture against my identity because being jewish IS my identity and culture regardless of whether or not i believe in god. that’s the whole point. religion isn’t just about belief it’s about culture and community. maybe your lens from christianity will never understand that but most other religions have a culture and practices that surround that culture.