i get your point but why did you just generalize bisexual individuals as a whole?? D: bisexuality also is better determined by dual attraction (homosexual and heterosexuality encompassed) it is never about someone’s body parts for the majority of us.

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i get what you’re saying but i agree with #1. just bc there are some like that doesn’t mean all of us are. this is that predator mentality that homophobes/transphobes use against queer people. we can’t be generalizing stuff like this in the community. for example, it’s the same saying “all men sexualize bi women”. obviously not all men are like that so all you have to do is add the word “some”

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I’ll be honest AS A BI TRANS PERSON, I don’t read the original post as that in the slightest. He’s asking if it would be ok to date trans women WHO ARE TOPS because he wants to respect that many trans women have dysphoria about topping. This has nothing to do with “best of both worlds” or assuming all trans girls have penises/want to top (as he says in the comments).

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If they’re being honest and open about it in an attempt to REDUCE the harm that can come from fetishizing trans women…then why make an issue out of their post? Genuinely asking

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as a bi trans person i think he's just a bottom and wants to know whether it would make trans women dysphoric to top him, since he doesnt ever top. i think its a fair question especially considering a lot of trans women who are into men would probably prefer to bottom. obviously trans women are not a monolith but i think he was trying to get an idea of responses

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I completely understand where you’re coming from and why you’re cautious but that’s not at all what that post is about and it’s really weird that you’re using your misinterpretation to generalize bi people - also a trans bisexual

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i’m bi and that guy doesn’t speak for us

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