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LGBTQIA+ 2w
Is it wrong of me (a bisexual cis guy) to want to date a tgirl that’s a top? I’m a pure bottom.
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Anonymous 2w

i mean there isn’t anything inherently wrong with it but it doesn’t just exist in a vacuum. it says a lot about how you view trans women and tbh i don’t know very many trans women who have had good experiences with exactly this kind of man. you’re all extremely predictable and disappointing lol

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Anonymous 2w

uh yeah its wrong to go out of your way to seek out trans people to date. thats called being a chaset

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Anonymous 2w

Are you SPECIFICALLY seeking out trans women? Or more asking the question of “I would date a trans woman, but I’m a strict bottom and want to avoid a potential partner feeling uncomfortable”?

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Anonymous 2w

You’re fine bro, just respect her as a woman and a human being and treat her as such instead of a sex object. That’s what people are afraid of with questions like this, but as long as your attraction to her as a person comes first and you don’t see her solely as an object of fetishistic desire, you do you

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Anonymous 2w

No

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Anonymous 2w

i mean it's not wrong of you to want to date a girl and be topped but yk strap exists right? like a cis girl could top you too lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m worried I’d just fuck with their gender dysphoria

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That’s really respectable and in that case I guess maybe just have a conversation with them? I don’t really know but talking might help

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

why do you need to bring trans women into your kinks with the sole purpose of objectifying her, there are plenty of femdoms that are down to peg you……………..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

As long as they’re comfortable being tops then it shouldn’t. Definitely don’t say anything like “wow I’m so glad you have a penis and you want to put it in me” or whatever but ur good

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

also obligatory be Very upfront about the fact you only bottom because a lot of trans women will not be willing to top

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