LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | This is only true if your only interaction with gay people comes from social media, go to your local gay bar or club, a queer event or a drag brunch and you will very quickly see that’s not the case and you just kinda have to find your tribe

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LGBTQIA+ 19h

This is only true if your only interaction with gay people comes from social media, go to your local gay bar or club, a queer event or a drag brunch and you will very quickly see that’s not the case and you just kinda have to find your tribe

LGBTQIA+ 20h

Let’s be transparent… if you are not white or athletic or attractive, it’s very hard to be gay out here.

Anonymous 19h

Not to harp on the chronically online thing but going to queer spaces in my city helped me create a chosen family after having to move across the planet for college of you go to them you’ll see that many people are genuinely kind and welcoming as long as you keep your heart and mind open to them

Anonymous 16h

Idk where u are but the queer culture in my city is really hostile in my opinion, and oop is right… unfortunately a skinny white gay guy is what everyone prefers

Anonymous 16h

Theres bias in every community, including ours.

Anonymous 18h

OP i think bro is talking abt grindr

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Anonymous

#1 18h

Even then that’s not really true

Anonymous

OP 18h

If anything I think they just got rejected and decided to make it everyone else’s problem

Anonymous

#1 17h

You can get play on grindr while being fat, unattractive, and a poc so idk what the issue is

Anonymous

#2 16h

The issue is usually that the people they’re attracted to aren’t attracted to them and somehow that’s everyone else’s fault

Anonymous

OP 16h

I live in a progressive area and even i see “no fats, ‘blacks’, or fems” sometimes.

Anonymous

#2 16h

Sometimes, in progressive areas especially. But theres always gonna be dicks