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LGBTQIA+ 1w
i fully disagree as a trans person. if they're an asshole about it then yeah maybe its transphobic but if it's just a preference that's not transphobic it's a preference
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gay men refusing to date trans men and lesbians refusing to date trans women IS transphobia
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Anonymous 1w

lowk it’s more of like. If someone just quietly doesn’t like dick and politely turns down people who ask them out that aren’t sexually compatible w their genital preference that’s one thing. If you loudly proclaim to the internet that you will never date a trans woman that’s a little weird. Like why would you feel the need to share that .

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Anonymous 1w

i’m also trans and second this. if they’re against dating trans people across the board it’s probably transphobia, but it’s usually just genital preferences which is totally fair. also i don’t wanna date anyone not into me so like idk idrc. i get enough play as is

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Anonymous 1w

No, it’s transphobic.

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Anonymous 1w

PREACH OP!!!!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Nobody is entitled to be the person of attraction to everyone, but if you exclude an entire demographic of people simply for being that demographic, then yes— it absolutely is bigotry and is unacceptable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

this is ridiculous. is it bigotry for a woman to exclude an entire demographic of people (men) simply for being that demographic (men)? obviously not. that can apply to literally any demographic because people don't have to date ANYONE they don't want to. i am a trans person. i almost exclusively date other trans people. i do not find men with penises attractive and specifically exclude them from my dating pool. this is not bigotry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

it is never "unacceptable" to not date people you don't want to date. acting like it is just creates fodder to act like trans people are inherently rapey. if you let people date who they want to date (not you specifically, but society as a whole i mean) then trans people will still be found attractive by others. you don't have to force people who don't want to date trans people to do so in order for trans people to find love. we aren't like, unattractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ok but what if they just don’t like whatever genitals you have, that isn’t transphobic it’s just a preference

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

i feel the same- i will say tho i think someone generally across the board refusing to date trans ppl can be fine- like if someone is straight (only likes men, for instance) but also has a bug preference for a specific set of genitals (penis in this scenario) then they might not be attracted to trans men because of the lack of penis but also wouldnt be attracted to trans women because they only find men attractive, yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

*big not bug 😭

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