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LGBTQIA+ 1w
gay men refusing to date trans men and lesbians refusing to date trans women IS transphobia
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Anonymous 1w

I don’t think anyone has to date anyone

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Anonymous 1w

I’m trans, I get it can be frustrating to feel like you have fewer options in the dating world (I feel the same way) but people like what they like and they can’t really change that. Some people are only into trans people and some are only into cis people, just happens

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Anonymous 1w

As a trans person, no it’s not

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

exactly, i am a trans person who almost exclusively dates other trans people and i have never met someone in real life who has anything against someone having this kind of preference. it never feels good to get rejected but at the end of the day people are allowed to reject anybody, at any time, for any reason, when it comes to sex and dating. if you're attractive and trans you probably won't have too many issues with it, esp if you're willing to date other trans ppl yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

and if you're unattractive, thats sadly just another issue entirely. you being trans or not likely has little to do with it at that point. obviously it does depend where you live but no matter what trying to force people to date trans people or find them attractive is just always going to backfire

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