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So I went out with him again and asked him to tone it down and he completely respected all my boundaries and was so nice and gentle, ig I just wasn’t clear the first time
So I went on a date ln and he’s the height of my shoulder… I’ve never been with smb shorter so I was like first time for everything. Anywho, date goes fine and we’re watchin movies at his place and all of a sudden…
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Anonymous 14w

What the fuck do you mean you went out with him again???

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Anonymous 14w

girl it’s not about whether or not you were “clear” it’s the fact that he didn’t ask in the first place!!!!

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Anonymous 13w

Survival instincts of a rock

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Anonymous 14w

😬😬

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Anonymous 13w

I- yeah this is not on you at all or that you “weren’t clear the first time” that was unacceptable for him to act like that without discussing it beforehand!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Was I not supposed to chat 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

What would be your reaction if a close friend/relative had the same experience as you, came back BRUISED as a result, and then went out again with the same person that did that to them? For the love of God PLEASE raise your standards and have some love for yourself cause this is scary as hell

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Literally!! Like wydm he couldn’t have even done the BARE MINIMUM of knowing OP was okay 💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Yeah like how can you expect him to be a good partner after that. I also wouldn’t trust a guy who slaps women in any situation

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