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Update: he hasn’t called me in three days and barely texts me back. He sent me a snap today that seemed like it was meant for someone else. Fuck this guy
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How do I approach my long distance boyfriend about feeling like we’re growing apart without making him get defensive
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Anonymous 2d

Did you break up with him

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Anonymous 2d

girl leave him!!!!!

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Anonymous 2d

Be petty and snap him but delete it and don’t say anything

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Anonymous 2d

Please break up with him. He doesn’t deserve you.

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Anonymous 2d

Update?

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Anonymous 2d

lowk just text him “I’m breaking up with you” and then block him on everything and don’t say anything. Men won’t want you back when you get emotional so if you truly want him to give u attention and beg for u back u gotta cut him off completely and take away the attention he gets from u- he doesn’t reach out to u as much bc he knows he can treat u like shit and you’ll still be there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Done that he didn’t say shit about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Not yet I’d like to do it over the phone but since he won’t answer it’s about to be a text

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

PLEASE TEXT HIM.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

this is awful advice. don’t try to make somone who doesn’t want you into you, won’t work

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

except for the “i’m breaking up with you” and block

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

why would you recommend putting energy into someone who doesn’t care about you? waste of time and love you could be giving yourself. also, doesn’t seem like OP wants him back. L take my dude

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Doesn’t take any energy to ignore someone like I recommended. It seemed like this girl originally wanted him back, or by her comments on her own post, wanted to get back at him and get his attention. I gave her a solution for that, not sure why u felt the need to comment 3 times to me. The advice will work if she does what I said however she doesn’t have to take the advice tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

i love screaming into the void duhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Nothing to update on yet I’ve been at work all day

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