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How do I approach my long distance boyfriend about feeling like we’re growing apart without making him get defensive
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Anonymous 4d

if he gets defensive when you express your feelings then he is not worth your time

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Anonymous 4d

Just be honest. Tell him you wanna talk

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Anonymous 2d

Break up queen it’s not worth the pain trust me as someone who’s been there did that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I’ve tried and he tells me I’m being dramatic and “overthinking” which fair I probably do that more than I should but this is genuine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

It sounds like he’s gaslighting you. I know not everybody has like the courage to come outright and say what they feel or mean, but i suggest being very straightforward.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Thank you I’ll try it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Girl ima have to he ain’t worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

They never are

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Amen to that

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