it’s the way we talk about women having sex as being passive receivers! or sex as something being done TO women. which scientifically isn’t true; our bodies equally engage in sex. even our language around sex is violent: fucked, cracked, railed, smashed
the vagina isn’t a sock, it’s a muscle. which means our vaginas are playing an ACTIVE role in sex. the muscles will relax or loosen when entry is welcome, and you might even feel the muscles pulling you in
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Anonymous2w
"banged", "beat it up", "thumping", the list goes on
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Anonymous2w
via scarleteen
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Anonymous#12w
one of my faves is "hunching" though 😂 non-violent and a hilarious mental image