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They don’t even see us as human. I hate all of them. Then they wanna turn around and complain about the “male loneliness epidemic” 🙄
389 upvotes, 61 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "They don’t even see us as human. I hate all of them. Then they wanna turn around and complain about the “male loneliness epidemic” 🙄"
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Anonymous 2w

If “something” loses value after you touch it, your dirty hands are the damn issue. I’m so sick of being objectified. But if I were to say that an aubergine being smashed around is gross and unwanted, they’d want to burn me for it.

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Anonymous 2w

They aren’t lonely enough 🤢

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Anonymous 2w

one theory of mine is that men have to put so much effort into finding sex and we dont have to so they just see having sex as a competition between men and get jealous of women since we sincerely dgaf 😭 i think this is also why they feel so much need to show dick pic to women or just compare size to one another because they WANT the feeling of putting in effort for this competition.

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Anonymous 2w

Everyday they come up with another bullshit way to shame women istg

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Anonymous 2w

i can’t say what i want to say or my comment will be removed

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Anonymous 2w

and that’s why they can’t get any coochie out of me

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Anonymous 2w

Surprised they didn’t bring up the lock and key analogy 😂

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Anonymous 2w

Audibly gasped

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Anonymous 2w

When you refer to “they”, is that all men, or just men like this? I’m assuming it’s men like this, but I was just wondering.

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Anonymous 2w

this is true tho

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Anonymous 2w

The main problem is that you’re on threads in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Seriously. The only difference is that more of us have more autonomy and can’t be sold for a fucking cow like before.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

What?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

This was from Facebook, but regardless there are still way too many people who think this way

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Every girl and boy on threads has one brain cell. This is like going on Twitter and finding an offensive post. What did you expect?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

She’s not even on threads you’re crashing out over nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

A capital would have helped here but, no, this was Facebook. Which is… well, worse in some regards. Most social media is full of shitty people too emboldened.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

how do you see a whole post dehumanizing women and your first thought is Umm are you being nice to men 🥺🥺🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

umm are we making generalizing statements ladies 🤓☝️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

you’re illiterate as fuck. she’s not even on threads my good sis. 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Mb, the meta circle in general

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

How am I illiterate?? I’m pretty sure I can read

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Mb gng, but you atleast get the point. Social media with old people will get you stuff like this

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

you keep going on about threads when that’s not even threads to begin with.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

That these types of people are disgusting and not lonely enough? Yup, that part’s true.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

that girls gettin 40 is not the same as a man getting 40 nice try

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

how is it different

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

prob that the woman made the men finish

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

You’re right, it’s actually worse because men are more likely to harm others in the process.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

women have more options. it takes either more effort or attractiveness for a man to have higher body count. girls could have a new man every day without effort.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

it always ends up being that they don’t view women as people and instead just see us as objects that can be ‘ruined’ by a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

so the difference is that men are easy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

Men could have sex with a LOT of women if they would actually treat us like HUMAN FUCKING BEINGS instead of as objects.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Ragebait

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

If we could have a new man every day then 40 is actually a very low body count for us. With that logic, a man with 40 must just be sleeping with anyone he can get whereas a woman with 40 must’ve turned down a lot of men in the process.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

When y’all say this you do NOT factor in conventionally unattractive girls. It is not that easy for me to have a “new man every day without effort“ be for real

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Why are people downvoting this 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I wouldn’t go as far to say, dehumanize, but it’s definitely insulting and unacceptable. I said that because I don’t think it’s healthy to generalize women or men as that’s one of the easiest ways to create division

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

I said my bad 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

what else would you call it when women aren’t viewed as people who can make decisions (ex. who they sleep with) and instead objects who have things done to them (which is the only excuse for how someone could see a man and woman sleeping with the same number of people as being different)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

i also don’t think you care about how women are generalized at all bc the only comments you made are about making sure people aren’t mean to men 🥺🥺 or insulting the op of this post for. idk. being upset about misogyny?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I try to clear up generalization on other posts that do the same thing but the other way around, this does not just tailor towards men. I did not try to insult OP in anyway, I just asked who is “they” referring to, and if it came off as that I apologize.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

where was this energy when you said the op had one brain cell bc you (incorrectly) thought she saw this on threads

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

It looks like I interpreted it differently as something insulting the intelligence of women rather than completely voiding their choice to sleep with someone. However the way you described it does align closer to the idea of dehumanization.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I’m sorry, that came out wrong. I meant people posting stuff like this not op herself are typically on there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

We still downvoting after I said I’m sorry 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

Right that’s why they grape and take what they want….. women still don’t have options as human trafficking rates are the highest in American history EVER…..

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Right. We don’t have to put up with unfair and shitty treatment, because it is easier in today’s society for us to support ourselves independently.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Ok sure social media is full of dumb shit. So what’s the harm in correcting the dumb shit?

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

And I’ll add: It’s not true that women (generally speaking) nowadays are all super picky with unrealistic expectations. There kind of men we want (again, generally speaking) exist. And the qualities we look for are not unattainable to the average guy either. Social media can make it seem like most women have super specific (and very superficial) requirements, especially with height.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

I know that me and *all* the single women in my social circle have very low expectations of just being a genuinely decent guy around our ages who wants more than superficiality. Instead, *I* get chasers and people who see me as nothing but an object, a predator, or some kind of “conquest” when I’m literally just a boring homebody who plays games and enjoys baking.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeah same here!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

The topic of men/dating comes up *very* often in conversation with other women. At least in my experience it seems to be one of those universal “girl chatting” topics. So many of us are like “I just want a guy that is nice, not creepy, treats me like a human being rather than a sex object, doesn’t have anger issues, etc.” Looks factor in, but for many women, personality really is what makes a guy sexy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

Exactly!! Like… it’s really not unrealistic. At the end of the day, for those of us interested in dating, we really just want someone who treats us like a damn equal and a partner instead of a damn object.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yes!! Emphasis on equal partner. And it’s possible for any guy to meet our standards!!!! Most of us are not superficial. Maybe some women will only date a guy over 6 feet. And I’m sure that some men have their own very very specific requirements for women they date. But you don’t have to go surgically increase your height to get laid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

My best partners have been shorter than me. Like, it’s really not hard to just be a nice person. It requires LESS effort to not be a POS, and would get so many more people *wanting* to be around— friends or romantic partners!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

My bf is exactly my height (5’5), and when I was realizing I had a major crush on him, his height did not factor into my thought process AT all. That could just be a me thing. But I didn’t even think about his height until my friend described him as short and I was like… oh damn yeah he’s really short😂 I did not see it as a flaw though, just as a neutral description.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

That!! I’m 6’1” and my ex is 5’5” and they were the KINDEST person I have ever met. Made me melt and I genuinely saw a life with them. Things didn’t go that way, but it’s okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I’ve also met short guys that were constantly self-pitying about their height and how women don’t like him because he’s short. And yes, I realize there are women that actually prefer taller guys. But I can bet that his unpopularity with women has less to do with his height and a lot to do with his obsession over a superficial trait, and incel-y “women have wronged me so I’m not gonna be nice for them” attitude.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

And for me, shortness isn’t like a flaw that I overlook because I love him. I just straight up don’t find height attractive/unattractive. Until I am in love with a specific guy. And then whatever height he is becomes the most attractive height to me. I’m sure if my bf was 6’5 I’d be going on about how much I love tall guys. But I love that he’s 5’5 because we can both be tiny together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

Genuinely! Pros and cons like with *everything* but not a basis for if I’ll date or not.

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