Anonymous #1 8w

Seriously. The only difference is that more of us have more autonomy and can’t be sold for a fucking cow like before.

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Anonymous #9 8w

That these types of people are disgusting and not lonely enough? Yup, that part’s true.

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Anonymous #2 8w

that girls gettin 40 is not the same as a man getting 40 nice try

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prob that the woman made the men finish

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Anonymous #9 8w

You’re right, it’s actually worse because men are more likely to harm others in the process.

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women have more options. it takes either more effort or attractiveness for a man to have higher body count. girls could have a new man every day without effort.

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Anonymous #9 8w

Men could have sex with a LOT of women if they would actually treat us like HUMAN FUCKING BEINGS instead of as objects.

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Anonymous #9 8w

If we could have a new man every day then 40 is actually a very low body count for us. With that logic, a man with 40 must just be sleeping with anyone he can get whereas a woman with 40 must’ve turned down a lot of men in the process.

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Anonymous #9 8w

When y’all say this you do NOT factor in conventionally unattractive girls. It is not that easy for me to have a “new man every day without effort“ be for real

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Anonymous #9 8w

Right that’s why they grape and take what they want….. women still don’t have options as human trafficking rates are the highest in American history EVER…..

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Anonymous #2 8w

Right. We don’t have to put up with unfair and shitty treatment, because it is easier in today’s society for us to support ourselves independently.

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Anonymous #13 8w

And I’ll add: It’s not true that women (generally speaking) nowadays are all super picky with unrealistic expectations. There kind of men we want (again, generally speaking) exist. And the qualities we look for are not unattainable to the average guy either. Social media can make it seem like most women have super specific (and very superficial) requirements, especially with height.

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Anonymous #13 8w

I know that me and *all* the single women in my social circle have very low expectations of just being a genuinely decent guy around our ages who wants more than superficiality. Instead, *I* get chasers and people who see me as nothing but an object, a predator, or some kind of “conquest” when I’m literally just a boring homebody who plays games and enjoys baking.

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Anonymous #2 8w

Yeah same here!!!

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Anonymous #2 8w

The topic of men/dating comes up *very* often in conversation with other women. At least in my experience it seems to be one of those universal “girl chatting” topics. So many of us are like “I just want a guy that is nice, not creepy, treats me like a human being rather than a sex object, doesn’t have anger issues, etc.” Looks factor in, but for many women, personality really is what makes a guy sexy.

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Anonymous #13 8w

Exactly!! Like… it’s really not unrealistic. At the end of the day, for those of us interested in dating, we really just want someone who treats us like a damn equal and a partner instead of a damn object.

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Anonymous #2 8w

Yes!! Emphasis on equal partner. And it’s possible for any guy to meet our standards!!!! Most of us are not superficial. Maybe some women will only date a guy over 6 feet. And I’m sure that some men have their own very very specific requirements for women they date. But you don’t have to go surgically increase your height to get laid.

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Anonymous #13 8w

My best partners have been shorter than me. Like, it’s really not hard to just be a nice person. It requires LESS effort to not be a POS, and would get so many more people *wanting* to be around— friends or romantic partners!

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Anonymous #2 8w

My bf is exactly my height (5’5), and when I was realizing I had a major crush on him, his height did not factor into my thought process AT all. That could just be a me thing. But I didn’t even think about his height until my friend described him as short and I was like… oh damn yeah he’s really short😂 I did not see it as a flaw though, just as a neutral description.

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Anonymous #13 8w

That!! I’m 6’1” and my ex is 5’5” and they were the KINDEST person I have ever met. Made me melt and I genuinely saw a life with them. Things didn’t go that way, but it’s okay.

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Anonymous #2 8w

I’ve also met short guys that were constantly self-pitying about their height and how women don’t like him because he’s short. And yes, I realize there are women that actually prefer taller guys. But I can bet that his unpopularity with women has less to do with his height and a lot to do with his obsession over a superficial trait, and incel-y “women have wronged me so I’m not gonna be nice for them” attitude.

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Anonymous #2 8w

And for me, shortness isn’t like a flaw that I overlook because I love him. I just straight up don’t find height attractive/unattractive. Until I am in love with a specific guy. And then whatever height he is becomes the most attractive height to me. I’m sure if my bf was 6’5 I’d be going on about how much I love tall guys. But I love that he’s 5’5 because we can both be tiny together.

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Anonymous #13 8w

Genuinely! Pros and cons like with *everything* but not a basis for if I’ll date or not.

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