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Girl Talk 9w
Ladies... I did it. I broke up with him
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Girl Talk 9w
Ladies, is it a red flag that my BF of one month wants to have an "Ice cream and trauma dump" date and has told me so multiple different times?
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Anonymous 9w

I’m ngl if he ONLY talks abt himself and refuses to listen to you fair, but like if your partner just wants to share and vulnerable with you I think your emotional unavailability is more the red flag ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Well, he does only talk about himself and quite literally told me he had to tell me about all his medical issues that he found on WebMD so I really don't think I'm the red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Why were you with him ? Was this like a real relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I was with him cause he was really sweet at first and we had really good dates. But then he asked me if I wanted to be "long term" and month in and after I said maybe, he started telling me about all his disabilities and mental health issues, ones that he wasn't even diagnosed with. And basically put on me that if we were long term, I'd have to take care of him

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