Girl Talk on Sidechat | Ladies, is it a red flag that my BF of one month wants to have an "Ice cream and trauma dump" date and has told me so multiple different times?

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Ladies, is it a red flag that my BF of one month wants to have an "Ice cream and trauma dump" date and has told me so multiple different times?

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Anonymous 9w

honestly yeah. it feels like he’s trying to manufacture intimacy instead of letting that develop naturally

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Anonymous 9w

wait why is this a red flag i love this

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Anonymous 9w

Tell him to get a therapist for that

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Anonymous

#2 9w

a little more context. he mostly just sounds like he wants to talk about himself most of the time and stated repeatedly that there is "so much he wants to tell me" about his life and his medical issues, etc.

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Anonymous

OP 9w

ahhh okay then yes maybe. because it should be a mutual sharing but that’s not it

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