I feel like if he’s also a virgin it’s valid to want a girl that is a virgin if that’s a moral he has, but if he’s not a virgin or just looking to hook up it’s weird to specifically want someone who is when he himself is not

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Guys, we need to worry about the type of person they are, not if they’ve had sex before and how much they have had sex. Because we all know just because someone may be a virgin doesn’t mean they’re a loyal and respectful, so you can’t automatically assume that just because someone who has had sex multiple times means that they’re disloyal or disrespectful. You need to put this childish, insecure way of labeling someone in the trash and get to know the person for who they are in the moment.

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Stop telling these men if you are or not because they can “feel it” that’s a lie and they don’t need to know just like they don’t need to know your body count as long as neither person has an sti you’re fine

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I hate those kind of questions. Likeeeee Are you 14????

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I feel like as a Christian it’s okay if they’re also a virgin for them to ask, bc as a Christian I also want him to be a virgin

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If a man is a virgin I think it’s perfectly acceptable for him to want to be in a relationship with another virgin.

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My ex was obsessed with taking my virginity. Kept saying “I’m so happy to be your first” who tf said you were going to be the first 🤣🤣

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100% but also a rlly fair question, less from the construct of virginity but a lack of experience, like idk if guys see a lack of experience as a bad thing, something attractive, or just fetishize it :(

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As a guy myself I wouldn’t worry if the girl I end up with is a virgin or not. Wouldn’t change how I see them. If I were a virgin I feel I’d have the right to ask but if I wasn’t one, I wouldn’t ask

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My last boyfriend said he would only sleep with virgins so I lied, the relationship didn’t end up working out though cause obviously he was a peace of shit

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I would rather not get with a girl who has had more dudes in her then we have on our football team…

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Well, technically he is normal But I get by weird you mean “outside the bounds of my group’s expectations”

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