
Exactly. Let’s take the Jenkins family from TikTok for example. They had six kids and were living in a one bedroom apartment with the kids sleeping on foam mats in the living room and the mom still posted a video saying her bf would give her another baby if she reached a certain number of likes. She clearly can have kids but the entire internet was shaming her for appearing to do nothing to improve the situation while leaving the kids in a cramped and unsustainable environment.