
I think there’s a sample bias with this. I’m a man, and seriously my first thought was “ok so if this was me being asked IRL, I’d be on my campus, probably surrounded by sorority girls”, and in my experience a lot of sorority girls do sleep around. When asked a question like this, I think it’s human nature to first think of the extremes. Once that thought is out of my system, I think “yea I’d probably trust 9/10 girls who told me their body count, it just depends on their behavior leading up”
Idk, I want to understand why men just… never believe women. Usually it comes back to “well one girl I dated my freshman year of college said blah blah blah & then she did blah blah blah” and now i have trust issues 💔 cuz why would you automatically assume someone was lying that you don’t even know?