Anonymous #1 1w

Why do you think that?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Because I’m waiting for marriage and ideally looking for someone else who is as well, but that will be very hard to find.

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Anonymous #1 1w

what does that have to do with not trusting women? you’re suggesting if a woman told you she WAS a virgin you wouldn’t believe her then either.

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Anonymous #1 1w

my point: you dodged the question

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Anonymous OP 1w

I said in most cases. Why are you so pressed about who I trust and don’t trust?

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Anonymous OP 1w

You have to look at the context. What kind of people she hangs out with, what she likes to do on weekends, etc

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Anonymous #1 1w

I’m not pressed, I wanted you to answer the actual question & not the question of your dating preferences?

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m saying my dating preferences bc it gives a reason why women might lie to me about their body count as opposed to a guy who doesn’t gaf

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Anonymous OP 1w

Do you have a high body count?

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Anonymous #1 1w

You ultimately said you don’t trust women with more promiscuous friends or women that go out on weekends. That’s the real answer. For you—socializing at parties or bars indicates promiscuity & deceit. That’s the answer.

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I answered that already like 3 replies ago but you’re too caught up on the fact I have standards lmao

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Anonymous #1 1w

I don’t, but I have no desire to prove to men who wanna multiply it by 3 and add 7 to it whether or not its the truth when they don’t trust women in general.

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Anonymous OP 1w

See this is what I’m talking about

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Anonymous #1 1w

I literally said you answered it with your second responses.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah I hit send b4 I got the notif

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Anonymous OP 1w

You started this by asking how men can tell when women are lying about their body count, that’s a huge red flag on its own lmao

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Anonymous OP 1w

Plus, the fact you’re worked up about what men think indicates you might have something to get worked up about. You don’t give men enough credit, we can read people too.

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Anonymous #1 1w

I’m literally just curious. Think what u want man I’m not here to even talk about my non existent sex life, do all the sleuthing & assuming you want dude

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Anonymous OP 1w

You’re wayyy too pressed to play it off now lol. Nice try though.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Word of advice, if you really don’t have a high body count, then stop making a big deal about our preferences. It’s a bad look for you.

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Anonymous #1 1w

I didn’t care about ur preferences I asked a question about trust. If it’s a bad look idgaf

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See what I mean? Just stop responding bro, seething doesn’t help your case

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Anonymous #1 1w

ok

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Anonymous #2 1w

I think generally I try to trust people until they give me a reason not to

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Anonymous #1 1w

hey dude, you're the asshole here. also a hypocrite. in your half answer u said u can tell a women ks lying by the ppl she hangs out with & going out on weekends. which doesn't mean jack shit so it didn't even really answer OPs question. Then you judged her anyway based on no context whatsoever that she has a high body count. you are exactly that type of guy she's talking abt...

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Anonymous #1 1w

like waiting for marriage is perfectly fine but you shouldn't judge someone who doesn't and u should trust that they are being honest abt it. why would they lie to u??

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Anonymous #4 1w

I can trust who I want lmao

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Anonymous #4 1w

Being defensive about body counts is obviously a huge red flag that you have a high body count. Can’t believe I even have to explain this. I’m allowed to use context clues here lol, why do you have a problem with that? You don’t have a right to my trust bro

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Anonymous #1 1w

well bc i used to be exactly like you and that mindset was doing more harm than good. I was veey guarded and didn't trut anyone. Especially women. Mostly bc i got hurt before. However, assuming all women are liars i was manifesting that into my reality. I met a perfect girl for me but i couldn't bring myself to trust her. It wasn't until i really started to get into The Bible and going to church to understand that you can't expect to grow closer with someone if you don't trust them.

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Anonymous #1 1w

i'm also not a perfect Christian. I wasn't raised in the church and i don't have a perfect history, but if i want someone else to trust me, i need to be able to trust them.

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Anonymous #4 1w

I appreciate your perspective. Thanks for being genuine. If a girl is a devout Christian I’d trust her.

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