Girl Talk on Sidechat | Hot take: being into kids is a spectrum and guys who fetishize girls who are “barely legal” are on it (I developed this opinion after processing two 13+ year age gap relationships)

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Girl Talk 4w

Hot take: being into kids is a spectrum and guys who fetishize girls who are “barely legal” are on it (I developed this opinion after processing two 13+ year age gap relationships)

Girl Talk 4w

Yo like why is there so many child predators

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Anonymous 4w

If they could go younger without breaking the law, they probably would, let’s be so fr

Anonymous 4w

As weird as this sounds I feel like it’s also related to misogyny

Anonymous 4w

100% and it’s so weird because they’ll actually admit that that’s the youngest they’ll go because that’s what’s technically legal.

Anonymous 4w

i recently turned 20 so i realize im not a teen anymore and there are ppl closer to “barely legal” but i still get so uncomfortable when i find that there are guys 34+ that find my age attractive :/ i even had a 30 yo tell me that he liked me and how naive and innocent i was since im 20. but then ppl make me feel stupid when they say “you’re an adult, age doesn’t matter anymore” so i just shut up.

Anonymous 4w

I mean, you’re not wrong… the difference is heavily emphasized during academic research but in everyday talk it’s not

Anonymous 4w

ok so like im a girl who met bf at 17 and he is 16 and now im 18 and hes not 17 until may, my friend said that the age gap is "weird" but shes gonna be 19 with a 21 year old bf with literally a month or so less of an age gap, so like idk if i am weird or shes just a hypocrite bc im dating someone younger than me

Anonymous 4w

U Got a hot take on cougars?

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Gross

Anonymous

#1 4w

It’s disgusting.

Anonymous

OP 4w

I had a neighbor her husband was a child predator and she would let him watch her daughter change and touch her we tried calling the police but they said we lied and covered up all the evidence

Anonymous

#2 4w

Like 90% of child predictors are men. Hate for children is driven by misogyny. They think they can get away with it because plenty of other men have gotten away with it, especially if they’re white. You know what I mean?

Anonymous

#2 4w

100%. It’s dominance, power, and control. The fetishization of youth has to main aspects imo - aesthetics and power. I can’t argue with what aesthetics they’re attracted (like I can think it’s creepy but I can’t argue) BUT if someone is older, more experienced, and more mature, they almost definitely have more power.

Anonymous

#5 4w

EXACTLY - like 18 is some magic number that changes everything - it’s literally not. That makes no sense.

Anonymous

#6 4w

Nah my hot take is based on personal experience and I don’t have any personal experience with that

Anonymous

OP 4w

Sounds like an excuse for a double standard to me

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Anonymous

#6 4w

I’m aware of the concept of a cougar but I’ve literally never encountered one so idk how I’d have a take on that. Women fetishizing younger men isn’t a widespread cultural concept. Open any porn site and you’ll see a million videos describing the woman as 18 or a teenager but I’ve never once noticed a video highlighting the youth of a man

Anonymous

OP 4w

Your reasoning to not have anything bad to say about it is that it seems to not happen as often. Not the best logic and appears like you’re moreso making n an exception for women because it’s more socially permissible to shame men

Anonymous

#6 4w

You’re missing so much nuance. Comment again if you still care in the morning and I’ll unpack it. I have a deadline

Anonymous

#7 4w

that’s not weird at all lol. dw girl