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Girl Talk 5w
the thing is i don’t think there’s any amount of thinking that can fully prepare you for being a parent like my parents were prob the best prepared any could’ve been and still ended up indirectly traumatizing me
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Girl Talk 5w
This is gonna get me attacked but I genuinely view myself and others who don’t want kids as more intelligent than most (notice how I didn’t say ALL) people who say they want kids. I think the majority don’t fully think it through.
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Anonymous 5w

It’s really annoying that the people who choose willingly not to have kids are probably better at raising em than others

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

this the only thing that almost convinces me at least to adopt bc like i know how awful others are and i obviously don’t think im perfect by any means but ik just having these doubts makes me better than a lot of others

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I feel the same way ^^ I’m really scared about being able to handle pregnancy sensory wise and taking care of a baby baby, and I think that fostering or taking care of exchange students might be easier/better for me

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