Anonymous #1 4w

We don’t have a lease. We’re staying at my parents’ old place. My parents just told me as long as we cover mortgage, they won’t make a lease

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Anonymous #2 4w

I talked to my parents about it a bit. Just how I’m over living with the brother. My dad reminded me that they don’t have anywhere else to stay. They moved here from out of state. We were living in their hometown until a couple of months ago. I wanted to go back to school after taking a couple of gap years. That’s why we’re staying at my parents. We crossed state lines together and they have jobs here. My dad just told me I need to give them time to find a place.

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Anonymous OP 4w

My mom is a therapist and the brother scares her. She says it seems like he’s very codependent and has anger issues. I just got her to stop calling me every night to check in on me. Hearing about the first time he was crouched in front of the door scared her really bad

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Anonymous OP 4w

your mom as a therapist was scared and you’ve STAYED? Girllll😭😭😭

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Anonymous OP 4w

I would be calling SOMEONE to sit with me as I explained this to the bf and brother if it’s that bad

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Anonymous OP 4w

i’m ngl i think you need to stay with your parents while you work this out. i would NOT be alone in the house with the two of them if your mother was this worried oh my god

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Anonymous #1 4w

My parents moved out of state 😭 they were going to rent the house but were so excited when they found out I was coming home. I mostly online for classes and I work a fully remote job. I’m home a lot and the brother only works 16 hours a week and plays video games. He never leaves the house so I’d be around him all the time until they find a place.

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Anonymous OP 4w

He has no friends out here and has already been giving me and my bf the silent treatment the last couple of months. He said we’re not spending enough time with him

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Anonymous OP 4w

Do you have a friend or SOMEONE that could just stay with you for some days?

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Anonymous OP 4w

talk to your parents and get a hotel room. tell your professors your situation and get on a plane. i’m not even joking if you tell them and you stay you’re putting yourself in serious danger

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Anonymous #2 4w

I just don’t want anyone to worry about me. I took the gap years because my mental health was really bad. Everyone was really worried about me. I just don’t want to be endless drama. Especially when I was just getting better

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Anonymous #1 4w

I don’t want to drop my in person classes because of this. I wanted to prove to myself that I can complete a school year with problems. I don’t want to break that promise to myself

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Anonymous OP 4w

you don’t have to drop, just explain what’s going on to your prof. if you want to stay then rent an apartment or an airbnb or something, but i’m not joking based on everything you’ve said you are very likely going to be in actual physical danger. is it worth keeping a promise to yourself if it kills you??

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