And also, no blue balls or discomfort is worth an std, men who push usually push for no protection too and women suffer. leave!!! seek pleasure where you can feel and be safe
girlies friendly reminder you have a right to refuse sex with your man. if he tries to guilt you for blue balling him, leave. if he doesn’t let you say no, leave. if he expects it, leave. consent is real, stay safe out there :)