this happened to me, and leaving was the best thing i could’ve ever done for myself. don’t let any man lower your self worth!!

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in our early days of dating, my bf stopped even when he was really close bc i was in pain. i hadn’t said anything about it, he just saw i looked uncomfortable and stopped to ask if i was okay. i was like yeah it’s starting to hurt a bit (even w lube) but i can go on if you’re close. and he was like wtf?? why would you think that’s okay? no we’re not continuing if you’re not enjoying it anymore. and then he helped me heal from that internalized guilt. W man fr 💯

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Yeah fr if a man gets blue balls for you just existing I think that’s a his problem and not yours. Idk. There’s a difference between teasing him and just existing. If he gets blue balls from you just existing then it’s 100% his own fault

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Also blue balls doesn’t even exist. It’s not a real thing if they are in pain because of an erection that’s testicular torsion

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