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I told her she needed to tell me everything before she did it. She forgot and inserted the speculum without warning. This is why I don’t fucking go
I am 23 years old and tomorrow I am going to a GYN for the first time since one put his hands in me with no warning or explanation when I was 16. Any tips for handling this experience after the malpractice? Anything I should know? How does this work?
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Anonymous 2w

I’m so sorry :((

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Anonymous 2w

i'm sorry babe, please report them. medical staff need to understand how traumatic these "simple appointments" are to people, I had a similar experience with my IUD, afterwards I could only have her talk to my mom and we will be switching away from her going forwards. I'm so sorry this happened to you but please don't let this stop you from going when you need to in the future, your health and safety is also extremely important, sending love 🩵🩵🩵

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Anonymous 2w

I’m so sorry that they did not respect your wishes beautiful. I am proud of you for going and encourage you to find a different provider. Do not hesitate to call the office and tell them about your experience too. What happened to you matters and if they are made aware of it, they will (if they have a sense) apologize and be more considerate to patients moving forward.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

any sense*

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