You might not relate to a bisexual or straight woman when talking about crushes but that doesn’t matter when you’re in a relationship. And like if they cheat on you with a man so what? They would’ve cheated on you with a woman too! I just don’t get why it mattersss

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In many cases it’s because of misogyny, they use the same talking points as misogynistic men who view women having sex with men as tainting them or something When not all bi women even have experience with men to begin with

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Yup like i used to tell myself it was a safety thing to be les4les cuz i got outed by an ex but i thought about it and it was a bias and i worked on it and now im dating a lovely bi woman. Like genuinely idk why these straight women cant for one moment investigate the root of their preferences

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As another lesbian I agree

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I had to reread that post like 10 times to get what she was saying lmao

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As a lesbian I do wholeheartedly agree with you but I have also heard worst case happen from lesbians who date bi women and they constantly make them feel less than bc they don’t have a real 🍆 or try to drag a third who’s a man into the relationship even tho their lesbian partner is uncomfortable with it and the women who only kiss/sleep with lesbians when drunk and take advantage of them emotionally& other things along those lines so I also partially understand why from A trauma perspective

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