genuinely what explanation could exist that isn’t homophobic
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Anonymous1d
Why would someone being bi be an automatic no from you though? Other than believing in homophobic/biphobic stereotypes
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Anonymous1d
I meeeaaan what’s the reasoning behind not wanting to date bi men?…
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Anonymous1d
I asked why a straight woman want to date a bi man yesterday and no one could give me a genuine answer that wasnt homophobia
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Anonymous1d
You no date someone because in specific group. That sole reason. Whole reason is “you in group so you bad”. Homophobic and wrong. Hope this helps!
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Anonymous1d
It’s pretty straightforward
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Anonymous1d
I really don’t see why it would even be an issue…if you’re straight you’re attracted to men and bi men are men????? just say you’re homophobic and go
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Anonymous1d
You're a bigot
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Anonymous#21d
Because I’m not attracted to them
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AnonymousOP1d
And why? QUICK! Don’t say they are bi. GO
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Anonymous#51d
The same reason I’m not attracted to broke men or short men or men who are ugly.
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AnonymousOP1d
Ohhhhh. Ok I’ve figured out the issue. You’re shallow asf
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Anonymous#61d
Literally like what tf are we missing
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Anonymous#51d
Why do you feel the need to shame other women for not dating men you believe they should be obligated to date?
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AnonymousOP1d
No one’s forcing you to date anyone. Doesn’t make your reasons not homophobic
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AnonymousOP1d
And what reason is that?
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Anonymous#31d
Do you need me to try to explain why my brain is built in a way that it reacts to those men in different ways it would to other men?
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Anonymous#61d
Do you not see how calling women names for not dating certain men is not incredibly anti woman and incel coded?
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AnonymousOP1d
so… just using the examples you gave… being bi is equivalent to being broke and ugly? and you GENUINELY think that reasoning isn’t homophobic?
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AnonymousOP1d
Girl it isnt that your brain is just like that you have a bias youre refusing to acknowledge
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Anonymous#51d
If I was an atheist, and I didn’t want to date a religious person would you say the same thing?
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AnonymousOP1d
Literally how tf did you get to that conclusion. No one’s making you date ppl tf? But you’re still actively being homophobic and sorry if as a queer person I don’t hold your hand when I inform you of that
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Anonymous#11d
Omfg why is my generation so fucking annoying yall think everything needs to be inclusive. Dating and relationships aren’t inclusive and no gay/bi man is owed a relationship with a woman and no one is homophobic for not giving them one.
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AnonymousOP1d
Considering religion is a choice and changes ppls values no I wouldn’t.If I told you a white person wont date anyone black for the sole reason of being black wtf do you think that would be called
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AnonymousOP1d
Missing the point olympics. No one is owed shit obv no one is saying that, we just want to know why if youre not homophobic u have some aversion to bi men
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AnonymousOP1d
Babes you’re just homophobic and don’t want to fucking hear it. Also if you’re so dense that you genuinely think ppl are trying to force you to date bi men you need mental help
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Anonymous#51d
You are calling women bigots for not wanting to date certain types of men. You are shaming women for who they chose to date. That is a method of control.
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AnonymousOP1d
no one is saying they are. no one is forcing you to date a bisexual man. but acting like there’s something wrong with being bisexual or that it makes someone ugly quite literally is homophobia
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AnonymousOP1d
Babes you’re dense. No one is forcing you to do shit. And ppl are calling you a bigot BC YOU ARE
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Anonymous#51d
Yall not gone like what I have to say.
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AnonymousOP1d
Youre not being controlled girl quit playing victim 😭 how else are we supposed to interpret you but as biphobic if youre talking down on bi men and refusing to give a real answer
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AnonymousOP1d
Jesus Christ 🙄
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Anonymous#31d
I have not spoken down on them. That’s they’re life they’re free to live. Doesn’t mean I gotta be willing to date them
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Anonymous#31d
Yea see I’m straight and would not care about whether a man was bi or not. I’m not single tho so I don’t date lol
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AnonymousOP1d
Yeah babes you did you put them on par with broke and ugly men
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AnonymousOP1d
So homophobic AND racist. Goooot it
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Anonymous#41d
She has yet to explain an actual reason why she wouldn’t want to date a man JUST because he’s attracted to both men and women
If he’s into women what’s the issue?
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Anonymous#21d
I’m literally black, I have no problem dating white men
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AnonymousOP1d
okay and how would you feel if these men said they’d never date a black girl bc to them that’s like dating someone broke and ugly?
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Anonymous#11d
I know you’re not comparing any man’s experience to misogynoir
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AnonymousOP1d
Where did they mention misogyny….
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AnonymousOP1d
okay so you DO see how judging someone based off of a characteristic they can’t change is bad