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Girl Talk 1d

the comments are really not it. y’all have such a tenuous relationship with the queer women in your community and especially the trans women. a group dedicated to providing women with a safe space should not have this problem.

Girl Talk 1d

trans women are women btw

Anonymous 1d

not me im fighting like hell in there #iloveyoutranswomen

Anonymous 1d

This group should be a space for all of our sisters regardless of what their journey to girlhood looked like 🫶💖✨

Anonymous 1d

everybody wants the culture and language and art of queer women and of bipoc women but when it comes down to it so few of you are willing to put in the work to actually be there for us.

Anonymous 23h

i’ll bet you half of those comments (the stupid ones) are just men lurking in this group

Anonymous 21h

i am pro women which is exactly why i dont think trans “women” are the same as bio women

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Anonymous 1d

As someone who fully supports trans people, the issue I have with the saying is that the experience of growing up as an amab trans woman is different than the experience of growing up as a girl. Not that girlhood is a monolith, but yeah. I recognize that trans people are not their biological sex, but it is fundamentally different than being cisgender, even if you fully medically transition.

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Anonymous 23h

trans women are trans women …. simple

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Anonymous

OP 1d

what bipoc

Anonymous

#3 1d

black, indigenous, people of color

Anonymous

#4 1d

what does any of that have to do with trans women being women

Anonymous

OP 1d

and to be honest it’s not always just about fighting and arguing with people but being supportive and spending time thinking about and unpacking and abandoning internalized misogyny, patriarchal thinking, bio-essentialism, internalized racism and making spaces for women less centered around men because all of those things are what make these spaces less welcoming and define the culture of women’s spaces in more subtle ways that are still very toxic

Anonymous

#4 1d

Being cis isn’t a monolith either. You don’t know what our experiences were like just the same as you don’t know what it was like for anyone but yourself. It’s not a contest. It’s not a comparative. There’s also a lot of issue with the “biological sex” commentary but that’s for another conversation. All women are different, no matter how close any two may seem.

Anonymous

#1 1d

I’m glad I can’t even see the post but thank you! 🤟🏼

Anonymous

#4 23h

The experience I had of my womanhood growing up as a disabled woman was different than that of an abled woman in ways that the abled woman could never understand and vice versa. Does that make one of us not a woman??? Bc that’s how u sound.

Anonymous

#4 23h

that’s the idea of “male socialization” which is pseudoscience used by TERFs. if you genuinely support trans people then I recommend listening to the others here. also binary sex is a construct as sex, in reality, is both bimodal and mutable. sex is extremely multi-faceted and medically transitioning trans people are one of many ways people defy the sexual binary.

Anonymous

#4 23h

like #7 touched on, people grow up due to an immense number of different circumstances. being cis/trans is just one circumstance of many, and that circumstance expresses itself in a number of ways. people’s lives can’t be generalized to that extent.

Anonymous

#8 23h

NOT saying that girls can’t be transphobic but it is very likely those are men

Anonymous

#9 23h

Trans women are women

Anonymous

#9 23h

And that’s just true whether you like it or not lol

Anonymous

#10 23h

no, they’re trans women 😭 no amount of physical modification can change ur sex srry

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Anonymous

#9 22h

They’re women. Period. Sex is neither binary nor immutable.

Anonymous

#5 22h

they’re transwomen. like. 😭 notice how this rhetoric doesn’t persist among f to m, it always boils down to using women as a means. this comment section is exactly why people get pushed to the right. ur only hurting ur own cause. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous

#9 22h

without looking it up define sex and gender

Anonymous

#10 22h

um, no. that would suggest a debate, and I’m not debating my stance.. it’s a declaration. so sorry to that man 😭 go have a child if you want to give instructions, ijbol.

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Anonymous

#9 22h

That certainly was a little paragraph. Want to be coherent? And, since you never finished middle school, a quick lesson: “trans” is an adjective, and “adjective” means a “word that describes a noun”. Same as tall, smart, silly… or, in your case, stupid.

Anonymous

#5 22h

you’re madddd lmaooo

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Anonymous

#9 22h

I’m just honest and follow the evidence.

Anonymous

#5 22h

oh ok that’s nice. I still said what I said. sooo.

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Anonymous

#9 22h

And you’re still an incorrect POS. 🫶🏻

Anonymous

#5 22h

you’re talking about yourself. stay mad 😝

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Anonymous

#9 22h

Keep projecting, skidmark. You don’t amount to anything.

Anonymous

#5 22h

projecting what exactly, I haven’t even insulted you. lol call the psychiatrist.

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Anonymous

#9 22h

That would suggest that you’re capable of defining the things you’re speaking on, but sure if you’re incapable I imagine you wouldn’t want to do that lol

Anonymous

#10 22h

right, right right right. call her up.

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Anonymous

#9 22h

The fact that all it took was telling you to define 2 words lmao

Anonymous

#10 22h

you’re so mad rn 😭😂

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Anonymous

#9 22h

Whatever your issue with trans people is, you need therapy for it.

Anonymous

#5 22h

#sorrytothatman

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Anonymous

#9 22h

You threw 2 tantrums because I told you to think of definitions for some words you used lmaooo

Anonymous

#10 22h

and what were those weak ass insults, if not a tantrum? 😭😂😭😂

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Anonymous

#9 22h

You think those were insults?

Anonymous

#10 22h

yOu tHinK tHoSe wErE inSulTs? 😂😂😭😭

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Anonymous

#9 22h

Another small tantrum lol

Anonymous

#10 22h

okay? like🤣

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Anonymous

#9 22h

All over 2 words lmao

Anonymous

#10 22h

cool story

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Anonymous

#9 21h

Anything else?

Anonymous

#10 21h

cool story

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Anonymous

#9 21h

Nope nothing else to say lmaooo

Anonymous

#10 21h

cool story

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Anonymous

#9 21h

Yk I’m cool with doing this forever lmao. I want you to waste your time lmao, it’s time you can literally never get back and I’m more than happy to take it from you

Anonymous

#10 21h

cool story

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Anonymous

#11 21h

trans women are women

Anonymous

#11 21h

Me when I’m a transphobe

Anonymous

#9 20h

Trans women are women :)

Anonymous

#9 18h

chromosomes =/= gender. gender is how you identify. please educate yourself before spreading ignorance.

Anonymous

#11 18h

you’re not pro women for this you’re anti trans women

Anonymous

#12 8h

99% of people in the US dont know their chromosomes btw, assigned sex has never been chromosomal. doctors just take tape measurer and say you’re one or the other if your genitals are above/below a certain length 😭 that’s it. they acknowledge it’s a complete guess too. assigned sex is such a joke, and it’s pure delusion to treat it like gospel when (again) the doctors that perform it ADMIT it’s inaccurate.