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Life update we talked in person in a mature way and now we’re no contact. I feel guilty because when we talked irl he was giving me the exact kind of mature love i wanted for 2 years from him. I saw the potential but its just too late now
Blocked my emotionally abusive ex. Can i get some reassurance because the last text was him begging to not end things. His hot and cold behavior confuses me and i couldnt take it anymore. Sometimes he’s so mean and sometimes so loving
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Anonymous 1d

He gave you the exact kind of mature love you wanted as a manipulation tactic. He hasn’t changed for 2 years. He will never change. You deserve much better ❤️ stop waiting for someone to change when there’s someone else waiting for you. Someone that you don’t have to block for them to realize they weren’t treating you right.

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Anonymous 1d

this is so fucking real

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

Yeah i feel guilty but then again no one ever changes in one night. He never changed when i begged him to change and ik he will go back to being emotionally abusive again if we start talking again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Exactly. And don’t get me wrong it sucks and I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Don’t feel guilty! You’re doing what’s best for you. Sending love and support ❤️

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