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Blocked my emotionally abusive ex. Can i get some reassurance because the last text was him begging to not end things. His hot and cold behavior confuses me and i couldnt take it anymore. Sometimes he’s so mean and sometimes so loving
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Anonymous 21h

Girl I just did the exact same thing I was convinced I posted this while high on ambian. He will not change, his insults will get worse, his apologies will not get better. But he will not change. Mine begged on the floor in tears after harassing me for 8 hours, telling me how hard I was to love and what a huge slut I am. He apologizes bc he doesn’t want to lose the things you offer him, not because of the light you bring him

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Anonymous 21h

you did the right thing girl! if he has u second guessing even this he was never going to make u feel comfortable

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Anonymous 21h

I just sent him a long text and then blocked him right after. Now he texted me from another number saying we can atleast talk ab it but like things have literally never changed after talking

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Anonymous 21h

The loving parts arent genuine if he treats you poorly. Keep him blocked and delete the convo if you can

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Anonymous 18h

When he’s mean is he being manipulative or is he just stressed? My bf occasionally can be snippy when he has a lot going on but doesn’t mean to be It’s contextual

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Anonymous 13h

Girl I am so happy you’ve freed yourself from that. You should be too🔥 I’m literally so proud of you and excited that you won’t be tolerating him or the lifestyle he brings 🚮 this post genuinely made my night better I love when women trust themselves and kick males who aren’t worth a damn to the curb

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

Yes the care is to keep you there not a commitment to change

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Block that one and block his friends. Mine would use his friends phones to text me when I’d block him. Clean break is the best way to do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

Gil im so glad you got out of it. He now texted me from a 3rd number saying he actually wanted to take me out for dinner tonight and talk it out like sir you ghosted me for 2days right before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Don’t fall for it. I had to block him on everything imaginable. Like Venmo too. And he showed up at my house to talk to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

When he gets angry he just gets super mean. Starts calling me names and doesnt acknowledge whatever i say. Just completely ignores what im saying and says whatever he wants.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Oh absolutely not get away from that girl run run run and don’t look back. I just wanted to make sure because “mean” is kinda ambiguous yk? Name calling and blatant disrespect is not acceptable. I just wanted to make sure it just wasn’t him having a bad attitude bc that can be worked on

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