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just felt like coming back & updating… ended up finding the strength to breakup with the boyfriend & my life genuinely improved SO much. I found myself so much outside of the relationship, experienced finally being on my own & focused on family…
girls i’m in BAD need of advice/helpful words: i’ve been wit my bf since high school and i love him dearly but there’s differences we have that i’ve always known about, lately more than ever i question why we even got together in the first place & …->
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Anonymous 11w

and friends, and focused on school. I felt so much weight lifted off of my shoulders not being in a relationship that didn’t suit me anymore!!! now I’m a few months out of that, i’ve leveled up in my personal life & i have a new boyfriend who exceeds all of the standards i have set for myself! moral of the story if you’re feeling how i felt before… YOU CAN DO IT.

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Anonymous 11w

hella proud of you, it’s so hard to break up with a good person who’s bad for you :/

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Anonymous 11w

Congratulations!!

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Anonymous 11w

it’s totally okay to outgrow a relationship. i hope all is well

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Anonymous 11w

i’m so happy for you girl. you deserve the best!

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Anonymous 11w

i’m soooo happy for u! i’m trying right now to get out of a toxic relationship but i will.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Reading all that broke my heart and i totally understand, im glad ur doing better now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Awww thank you so so much!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

thank you so much girllll 💘💘

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

ofcofc

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

yes girl the hardest part is DOING it. one day you just have to find the strength, get up and DO IT. gather all the stuff up go see them and break things off. as long as you’re doing what’s best for you and ur health and wellness!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

it’s so hard bc u get use to the comfort of having them. sometimes i feel stuck but i know i don’t want to marry him so.

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