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girls i’m in BAD need of advice/helpful words: i’ve been wit my bf since high school and i love him dearly but there’s differences we have that i’ve always known about, lately more than ever i question why we even got together in the first place & …->
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Anonymous 3w

If u gotta break up u should, but have an honest convo bc a lot changes from 15 to 20

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Anonymous 3w

I was going through the same thing with my ex and we were together for the same amount of time and I kept convincing myself that we should just stay together but I regret not leaving sooner to save us both some of the pain it just gets worse and communication can only do so much i think you should do what’s best for you and if he loves you he’ll understand

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Anonymous 3w

… & i feel like sometimes we have absolutely nothing in common. there are a lot of things about him that i honestly can’t see being my future husband. i know for 100% that he absolutely loves and adores me, and he pictures me in his future forever, but sometimes i wonder if he actually loves ME, or just loves having me. i know ill love him forever and i’ll never hate him but i just feel so lost anymore, i feel like i lost my spark with him and all i can see are things that dont align with…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

…with my future. we got together when we were 15 and now we’re 20. i think about leaving and it hurts my heart so bad but sometimes i feel like it’s what i need to do. he’s a great guy and thinking about hurting him rips my heart apart, but i know i need to look out for me. sometimes i feel stuck because of that reason. anyone ever been here before???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i’ve had so many times throughout the years when i’m 100% convinced in my mind and soul and heart that he’s perfect for me, but i feel like that was when we were younger and certain things i’ve always noticed were pushed aside in my brain. now we’re older and it’s all becoming more real and i’m facing whether or not it’s what i want for the rest of my life :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You already know what you need to do, that last sentence is VERY true

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

ugh it’s so hard and sad but thank you so much i appreciate your input

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