Anonymous #1 3w

HSV 2…

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Anonymous #1 3w

This is genuinely the worst day ever.

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Anonymous #2 3w

I don’t have the money unfortunately

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Anonymous OP 3w

Understandable :( I’m so sorry that happened to you. I fucking hate cheaters

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Anonymous #2 3w

I’m not mad about the virus itself. I have family members and friends with it and they’re just fine. I’m just angry he lied to me. Now I have to live with the awful stigma looming over me.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I am genuinely so sorry girl, I hope it goes okay, it’s extremely hard and I can’t say it gets easier but I can say with the right support and self love it should hopefully get easier one day. Just keep your head up and truck on babes. (Alsooo though expensive, you can sue for reparations over being given an STI/STD due to lack of disclosure (basically negligence), maybe the right woman lawyer would take on your case for free and just a small amount of payment after you win)

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Anonymous #4 3w

Thank you. I don’t really have anyone in my life I feel safe to talk to or tell about this so I appreciate everyone’s kind words. The pharmacist I went to apparently also has it and literally left her desk and came to hug me while I’m sobbing in the pharmacy parking lot. This is probably the worst day of my life and that’s saying something.

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Anonymous #7 3w

I’m genuinely just angry he was so irresponsible. The very second I noticed something was wrong I went straight to the doctor. I would never be able to forgive myself if I gave this to someone unknowingly.

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Anonymous #5 3w

Thank you. I know everything will be ok in the end it just really sucks. I feel like absolute disgusting shit right now.

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Anonymous OP 3w

of course. it’s so understandable for everything to suck right now but you are not disgusting the man that caused this is disgusting. you are a beautiful, glowing goddess who is just going through it right now. you got this and we’re always here for you.

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Anonymous #5 3w

Thank you. I’m currently going through the mortification of calling the last person I slept with a year ago to tell him to get tested just in case. I have no idea how long Ive had this considering Ive been asymptomatic and just now had a flare up when Ive been abstinent for over a year. I’m positive my ex before him gave it to me so I’m absolutely terrified right now. I actually feel sick. I always get tested between every partner and I’m always extremely safe . I feel so incredibly stupid.

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Anonymous #10 3w

This is the most low value I’ve ever felt in my entire life. I’m always so safe and I just feel so gross now. I also have a funeral to attend this week. The universe has a sick sense of humor lol

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Anonymous OP 3w

I wish I could give you a hug ugh I’m sorry to hear that love. I hope things turn up for you soon since they are so shitty now. Make sure to keep giving yourself compassion that is what will keep you afloat yk you deserve it

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Anonymous OP 3w

You tried your best to be safe and he didn’t. Don’t be hard on yourself

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Anonymous #9 3w

I don’t have lawyer money lol

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Anonymous #10 3w

I know it’s just hard not to beat myself up about it. I feel so dumb and gross. I just wish he had the courage to tell me

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Anonymous #12 3w

Idk and things like this are hard to prove in court. Doctors don’t even really have a way of telling how long you’ve had it and he won’t get tested. I don’t want to waste money I don’t have when our legal system refused to even put my rapist away WITH proof and multiple other victims

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Anonymous #12 3w

It is a real thing, it’s just usually in criminal cases for the defendant since they’re not the one bringing the case (and often don’t have the resources for a paid lawyer) those cases also usually go to criminal lawyers who are just getting started so not always the best representation anyway

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Anonymous OP 3w

I know it’s hard not to hon that is valid. You are not dumb and gross put the shame where it belongs (him) and take care of yourself 🩷

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Anonymous #14 3w

I’m so grateful for everyone’s support I’m sort of handling this silently on my own other than my anonymous yikyak girlies holding my hand through this. I feel a lot better today than I did yesterday but I know I have a long emotional road ahead of me.

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Anonymous OP 3w

It’ll just take time getting used too, finding what works for you and your body since each case is different between people and their responses to diff things that can cause a break out. Good thing condoms exist to :)

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Anonymous #9 3w

Yeah true and I still got this WITH condoms 😭

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