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She said he’s coming to our first pregame of the semester, the one at my house, didn’t ask to invite him just said “oh Jason is coming too” it’s nbd, I wish she would have asked, but our other friends want me to tell her no like you tell her 😭
My friend keeps complaining about her bf and I don’t know how to tell her it’s exhausting hearing her complain about a genuinely good guy when I’ve been treated terribly by men in my past relationships.
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Anonymous 4w

Usually tacking a “though I wished you asked first” at the end of the agreement is enough to get the point across

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Anonymous 4w

i mean if it's a girls night out and he doesn't give girly pop then i'd just say i think everyone would prefer him not coming and say he can meet yall out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

That’s the thing— it’s not necessarily a girls night out, like our core friend group is 2 men, and 3 women, but these guys we’ve known for 4 years so it’s a little different and on the other hand their relationship is very new, so she only talks to him when he’s around

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i guess let him come and if he pulls some bullshit u can sit down w ur friend and let her knw ud prefer he didnt come on yalls nights out anymore if hes going to cause drama

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Mhmm, I think that’s a good idea, we talked to her about it last semester when it was a problem so I’m giving them the benefit of the doubt that they’ve mellowed out a little bit compared to the fall semester

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

best of luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thank you!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I hope so, I ended up doing that a few times last semester, so I had hoped the message stuck but ig I gotta reiterate haha

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