15 is crazy 😭😭 but tbh sex isnt even all that, idk y ppl care so much about virginity like it's literally 2026

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She may have just been wanting to clarify if you meant that you just weren’t currently active vs have never been active, just for health reasons. But that’s just me giving her the benefit of the doubt idk

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I had this convo with my dr too and it pissed me off so bad. I asked her what she means and she js repeated the question like I have a GIRLFRIEND what the fuck are you asking me?? “Are you sexually active” “yes” “could you be pregnant?” “No” “so you’re not sexually active?” WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??? Big difference between, “could you potentially be pregnant?” And “could you potentially have an STD?” I walked into the ONGYN it’s on me if I can’t handle those questions

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I went to the ER for an ovarian cyst (I woke up with horrendous stomach pains & I couldn’t stand up or walk) my (then) bf had to carry me in the back for triage & to the exam room bc they refused to give me a wheelchair. The doctor asked if there was any chance I was pregnant & I said no, he looked at me, looked at my bf, looked at my mom, confirmed that I was 21, and then said “yeah… you’re a virgin I’m sure” he REFUSED to believe I was a virgin and refused to believe I wasn’t pregnant 😭

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Like, god forbid I don’t wanna be a free hoe for hookup culture.

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My doctor did the same thing. I just told you no stop fucking asking me in different ways if I’m sexually active.

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I’m not sexually actively and haven’t been for over a year, but I’m definitely not a virgin 😭 weird assumption to even make, let alone voice

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I lost mine at 18 when I was a freshman in college. It was an awful experience. I didn’t do anything with anyone again until I was 22. Don’t rush it. It can be great but you really need a person who actually cares about you

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My doctor!!! Literally every time I go, she asks if I'm sexually active, I tell her no, and then she words it differently to see if I'm lying, or will say “its ok if you are, you can tell me!” I told you no!! What's so difficult to understand about that? And I know people lie all the time, but seriously, is it that hard to believe a 21yo chooses to not have sex?

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Not being sexually active doesn’t even mean NEVER having sex so idk why she even reacted like that, also that’s lowk unprofessional 🫩

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I lost mine recently (I js turned 20) and honestly I’d rather have kept waiting til marriage

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