People who care about that sorta shit are genuinely losers. If youre a virgin, if youre not a virgin. Deadass were adults. Thats some early HS shit😭

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no like literally people say stuff like “I know you’re lying bc its so easy for women to have sex” or something & they dont believe me either

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I was freaking out last night bc my friend made a joke about me being the only virgin in the room and I feel like I have had chances but I’m just too scared to go through with it. They was just kidding but fml it hurt my damn feelings. It’s so stupid. Virginity doesn’t mean anything, whether you have it or not.

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Not the same, but it’s similar with me saying I don’t have sex until I’m in a relationship lmaaoooo. It’s a nice litmus test for men who are dating seriously tho

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Literally. I’m not in any rush bc I know it’s gonna be painful. I have endo and it hurts so badly for tampon or annual visits and I just know it’s gonna suck. I’m honestly scared and concerned about a partner understanding. That’s why I never bring it up to people so they don’t feel rushed or insecure whether it’s personal preference or medically related

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I feel like this is actually the MORE common things nowadays 😭 everyone I know and myself included did not lose our virginity until our 20’s and it affects literally nothing

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Bro I was talking to a friend about this cuz it’s lwk such a gross concept in and of itself. Why is my worth tied to anything esp smth like “have you fuxked yes or no?” EWWW

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AMEN SISTER. I only lost mine like three something weeks ago? And I’m 22. I literally only lost it because I finally felt like losing it. Absolutely no rush or pressure and if you don’t feel ready it is so not worth it. It’s traumatic to try and lose it if you’re not ready to lose it (speaking from experience), and anyone pressuring u or giving u shit for not wanting to rush it should be completely ignored. DO YOU GIRL.

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Omg don’t get me started, that shit is so stupid and then whenever they meet someone that has like 2 bodies they act like their whole world is gone but good lord don’t talk about how much they have racked up because “it’s not the same thing” literally hate this idea

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i literally took my ex’s virginity when he was 22 lmao it’s not unheard of

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same!! i’m almost 23 and i just haven’t really put effort into dating at all because i was focused on school and family issues and there’s nothing wrong with that (my mom didn’t lost her v card until she was 23 so i’m like there’s still hope for me!)

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How it feels telling people I’m a virgin and I’ve barely been in a relationship before but they couldn’t possibly fathom that

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PREACH

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Exactlyyyyy

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This means they think you’re so hot that there’s no way you haven’t had sex. Take it as a compliment!

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